Sexual fantasies 101 – Your reliable starters guide

There are people who’ve never fantasized before and those who spend hours daydreaming or fantasizing. There are no rules, when it comes to sexual fantasies. This is one area in which you have the freedom to think and to dream, without the fear of being labeled a pervert. After all, one can have filthy thoughts, but not necessarily act on them. It’s OK to give free rein to your wackiest thoughts and act them out through explicit sexual thoughts. And the best part is – you can be with Johnny Depp or any hunk you know in some island while sitting in your office. But to fantasize about Johnny Depp and an island you need to have an active imagination. Not everyone is blessed with active imagination. Here are a few facts about fantasizing that will propel your imagination and make you feel comfortable about fantasizing.

Fantasising is fantastic

Sexual fantasies serve a number of purposes. They induce the desire to have sex; sustain sexual excitement; improve sexual experience; help trigger orgasms and preserve pleasant memories. Older people, or those in long term relationships find it increasingly difficult to get turned on by sexual fantasies. That’s a pity, because erotic fantasies help to sharpen your focus on an anticipated sexual activity and get you in the right mood for it.

Inactive imagination? Try this

What do you do when nothing seems to turn you on? Get yourself psyched up by thinking about what you would like to do or what your partner will do to you. Or you can imagine yourself as a sexual novice about to have sex for the first time. Imagine the kind of partner you would like to have sex with – the smell of your partner’s body, the sounds of pleasure that the two of you would make, the warmth of your bodies – imagine all these details in graphic detail. Consider this fantasy as a new exciting adventure. No holds barred. But include only images that you are comfortable with